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I am moving on..... Yes, i am.

"I'm Moving On"

I've dealt with my ghosts and I've faced all my demons
Finally content with a past I regret
I've found you find strength in your moments of weakness
For once I'm at peace with myself
I've been burdened with blame, trapped in the past for too long
I'm movin' on

I need all these words!! Motivation..motivation..

Moving On Quotes & Sayings

Part of me will always love you. But it's okay, because I let you go a long time ago. I hope you'll have a great life. I know I will.

This is me..

Aku rasa....macam nak mulakan hidup baru di tempat baru jugak. Hati ni, dah rasa semacam. Feel something. Rasa macam nak bina hidup baru, with the kids. Tempat baru, orang2 baru,semuanya baru. Bukan tak biasa...dari pahang ke melaka ke penang. Teringin pulak nak ke perak-ipoh.

Welcome to the new students Batch 2011/2012

Welcome to the new students
Batch 2011/2012 of KMPP. Hoping that all of you will behave well and be better students this semester. Hoping that you'll produce better results too. I dont wanna put high expectation on U, but 8 years of experience in teaching matric students really teach me a lot. Well, we shall wait n see.....

I hope you can adapt with the new environment here, a new surrounding and new learning style. You have to learn to accept changes and adjust them so that they can fit with ur life. You have to learn to live among new people, new faces and new learning place. Dont be so culture shock, it is for temporary only....After a few months, you will survive this confusing n crucial phase-adapting. All the best and good luck to all of u!!!

CUDA..

HAPPY TEACHER'S DAY...TO ALL THE TEACHERS IN MALAYSIA

Happy Teacher's Day to me and to all teachers in Malaysia, let it be kindergarten teachers, school teachers, college lecturers etc...We are the same, educators, so the aim is always the same, to teach our young generation and instill good moral values in them with the knowledge that we have.

Selamat Hari Guru buat semua guru dan semoga kita akan menjadi guru yang lebih baik di masa hadapan dan dapat mengharungi dunia yang semakin mencabar ini. Bukan senang hendak membentuk seseorang sehingga menjadi seirang yang berjaya, ia amat memerlukan pengorbanan dan kesabaran yang tinggi, apatah lagi dengan keadaan sekarang yang semakin mencabar dan pelbagai permasalahn yang timbul di kalangan pelajar-pelajar kita.

Please keep holding on,CUDA!!!

I like this song...the lyrics kinda motivate me. By Avril Lavigne...Keep Holding On. It was famous few years back.

You're not alone
Together we stand
I'll be by your side, you know I'll take your hand
When it gets cold
And it feels like the end
There's no place to go
You know I won't give in
No I won't give in

Keep holding on
'Cause you know we'll make it through, we'll make it through
Just stay strong
'Cause you know I'm here for you, I'm here for you
There's nothing you could say
Nothing you could do
There's no other way when it comes to the truth
So keep holding on
'Cause you know we'll make it through, we'll make it through

So far away
I wish you were here
Before it's too late, this could all disappear
Before the doors close
And it comes to an end
With you by my side I will fight and defend
I'll fight and defend
Yeah, yeah

Keep holding on
'Cause you know we'll make it through, we'll make it through
Just stay strong
'Cause you know I'm here for you, I'm here for you
There's nothing you could say
Nothing you could do
There's no other way when it comes to the truth
So keep holding on
'Cause you know we'll make it through, we'll make it through

Hear me when I say, when I say I believe
Nothing's gonna change, nothing's gonna change destiny
Whatever's meant to be will work out perfectly
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah

La da da da
La da da da
La da da da da da da da da

Keep holding on
'Cause you know we'll make it through, we'll make it through
Just stay strong
'Cause you know I'm here for you, I'm here for you
There's nothing you could say
Nothing you could do
There's no other way when it comes to the truth
So keep holding on
'Cause you know we'll make it through, we'll make it through

Keep holding on
Keep holding on

There's nothing you could say
Nothing you could do
There's no other way when it comes to the truth
So keep holding on
'Cause you know we'll make it through, we'll make it through

CUDA...

R.E.S.P.E.C.T!!!!!

The topic for today is, "How do you differentiate the way u treat people?"
When u treat ur family members?
When u treat ur friends?
When u treat ur teachers?
When u treat ur special person(bf/gf etc)?
When u treat unknown person(strangers)?

The key for all those questions is, RESPECT. Whoever that person is, should treat the person with respect. Without it, u wont get the same treatment in the end. If u want others to respect u, u have to respect others first. That is the rule. Easy. It doesnt require money or energy. Juz a small effort. That's it. Is it hard? Is it really hard for u to do that?

I dunno...It can make the person feels down and angry then leads to hatred. It is not good when u hate somebody. It shows u dislike the person so much. Then, u tend to avoid the person. Isolate urself. Im in that state now. I start to feel that way now...mistreated me...disrespected me..I feel so hurt. Damn hurt. Badly hurt.

Can u make it better by simply apologizing from that person every time u say something wrong or for mistreating her/him? What if the person keeps repeating the same thing?
So, i guess in this context, sorry isnt the hardest word to say..."Im very sorry".."Im sorry"..."Forgive me"..
Is the meaning still there?

CUDA..

Tidak sempurna or sempurna?

Again i feel like writing...in this early morning. Talking about perfect and imperfect, what makes somebody perfect in your eyes? Is it when he/ she has all the personality traits that u really want then only that person is perfect? What if he/she doesnt have all the good traits?

Bagaimana kita hendak ubah personaliti seseorang yang memang dah ada sifat tu sejak dari kecik lagi? Contohnya, dalam hubungan, si lelaki tu tak romantik dan tak caring. Jadi, perlukah gf dia putuskan hubungan hanya semata-mata dia tak romantik? Penting tak untuk lelaki menjadi romantik dan caring?

I dunno..i think, if he is a bit caring n a bit romantic, there's no use of breaking up the relationship. We have to learn to accept the way he is. In a way, the guy also needs to realize that he should change certain things. Maybe not 100%, but at least try his best..In a serious relationship, it is crucial for both parties to play their roles in order to work out the relationship. Do u agree with that? It's not fair if only one party plays the role rite.

But, if si dia pun lepas tangan, take us for granted, take advantage atas kelemahan kita, maybe jugak kita kena consider balik. Is he/she the one for us? Atau mungkin ada yg lebih baik dari dia di luar sana...menanti untuk dijumpai.
Kalau hati kerap terluka dan disakiti, kalau dia buat kita macam tak berbaloi untuk dimiliki, or not worth to fight for..I think it's about time to make our move...kena kuat dan mental pun kena kuat jugak.

Kita pun kena tengok balik diri sendiri. Kita ni perfect sangat ke? Tiada siapapun yang perfect. Jadi, kita kenalah belajar menerima kekurangan dan ketidaksempurnaan si dia tu dengan hati terbuka walaupun sukar. Mungkin jugak kita perlu mencari apa yang istimewanya si dia di mata kita..Cari kelebihan yang dia ada...

Learn to love somebody who is not perfect in a perfect way...How? We have to find the way..Hmm...in the meantime, try to think positive maybe.

Some quotes to share with u:-

When you're in love you never really know whether your elation comes from the qualities of the one you love, or if it attributes them to her; whether the light which surrounds her like a halo comes from you, from her, or from the meeting of your sparks. ~Natalie Clifford Barney

When love is not madness, it is not love. ~Pedro Calderon de la Barca

You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams. ~Dr. Seuss

Come live in my heart and pay no rent. ~Samuel Lover

We were two and had but one heart > Francois Villon

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, While loving someone deeply gives you courage > Lao Tzu

There is no remedy for love but to love more > Thoreau

I love you, not for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you > Roy Croft

CUDA

Belajar Mencintai Seseorang Yang Tidak Sempurna Dgn Cara Yg Sempurna

Pinjam kata-kata ini dari seorang sahabat di facebook untuk renungan kita semua...

Ketika kita bertemu orang yang tepat untuk dicintai,

Ketika kita berada di tempat pada saat yang tepat,

Itulah kesempatan

Ketika kita bertemu dengan seseorang yang membuatmu tertarik,

Itu bukan pilihan ,

itu kesempatan.

Bertemu dalam suatu peristiwa bukanlah pilihan ,

Itupun adaah kesempatan .

Bila kita memutuskan untuk mencintai orang tersebut,

Bahkan dengan segala kekurangannya,

Itu bukan kesempatan, itu adalah pilihan.

Ketika kita memilih bersama dengan seseorang walaupun apapun yang terjadi,

Itu adalah pilihan .

Bahkan ketika kita menyedari bahwa masih ramai orang lain

Yang lebih menarik, lebih pandai, lebih kaya daripada pasanganmu

Dan tetap memilih untuk mencintainya,

Itulah pilihan.

Perasaan cinta, simpatik, tertarik,

Datang bagai kesempatan pada kita.

Tetapi cinta sejati yang abadi adalah pilihan.

Pilihan yang kita lakukan.

Berbicara tentang pasangan jiwa,

Ada suatu kutipan dari film yang Mungkin sangat tepat :

"Nasib membawa kita bersama, tetapi tetap bergantung pada kita

bagaimana membuat semuanya berhasil"

Pasangan jiwa bisa benar-benar ada.

Dan bahkan sangat mungkin ada seseorang

Yang diciptakan hanya untukmu.

Tetapi tetap berpulang padamu

Untuk melakukan pilihan apakah engkau ingin

Melakukan sesuatu untuk mendapatkannya, atau tidak...

Kita mungkin kebetulan bertemu pasangan jiwa kita,

Tetapi mencintai dan tetap bersama pasangan jiwa kita,

Adalah pilihan yang harus kita lakukan.

Kita ada di dunia bukan untuk mencari seseorang yang sempurna untuk

dicintai TETAPI untuk belajar mencintai orang yang tidak sempurna

dengan cara yang sempurna

Dari Abu Hurairah radliyallahu ‘anhu dari Nabi Shallallahu ‘Alaihi Wa Sallam, beliau bersabda :
“Perempuan itu dinikahi karena empat perkara, karena hartanya, keturunannya, kecantikannya, dan karena agamanya, lalu pilihlah perempuan yang beragama niscaya kamu bahagia.” (Muttafaqun ‘Alaihi)
“Apabila kamu sekalian didatangi oleh seseorang yang Dien dan akhlaknya kamu ridhai maka kawinkanlah ia. Jika kamu sekalian tidak melaksanakannya maka akan terjadi fitnah di muka bumi ini dan tersebarlah kerusakan.” (HR. At Tirmidzi)
from:abu hanifah

by Mohamad Aizaruddin Adanan

CUDA

Mengapa Hawa tercipta saat Adam tertidur dan Hawa melahirkan saat dirinya terbangun?

Terharu baca artikel ni.Harap kaum lelaki akan lebih memahami hati dan perasaan orang perempuan ni.

Seorang laki-laki jika dia kesakitan, maka dia akan membenci. Sebaliknya wanita, saat dia kesakitan, maka semakin bertambah sayang dan cintanya,, Seandainya Hawa diciptakan dari Adam As saat Adam terjaga, pastilah Adam akan merasakan sakit keluarnya Hawa dari sulbinya, hingga dia membenci Hawa. Akan tetapi Hawa diciptakan dari Adam saat dia tertidur, agar Adam tidak merasakan sakit dan tidak membenci Hawa. Sementara seorang wanita akan melahirkan dalam keadaan terjaga, melihat kematian dihadapannya, namun semakin sayang dan cinta nya kepada anak yang dilahirkan bahkan ia akan menebus nya dengan kehidupannya.

Sesungguhnya Allah menciptakan Hawa dari tulang rusuk yang bengkok yang tugasnya adalah melindungi Qalbu(jantung, hati nurani). Oleh karena itu, tugas Hawa adalah menjaga qalbu. Kemudian Allah menjadikan nya bengkok untuk melindungi qalbu dari sisi yang kedua. Sementara Adam diciptakan dari tanah, dia akan menjadi petani, tukang batu, tukang besi, dan tukang kayu. Wanita selalu berinteraksi dengan perasaaan, dengan hati, dan wanita akan menjadi seorang ibu yang penuh kasih sayang, seorang saudari yang penyayang, seorang putri yang manja, dan seorang istri yang penurut.

Dan wajib bagi Adam untuk tidak berusaha meluruskan tulang yang bengkok tersebut, seperti yang dikabarkan oleh Nabi Muhammad SAW, “jika seorang lelaki meluruskan yang bengkok tersebut dengan serta merta, maka dia akan mematahkannya.” Maksud nya adalah dengan kebengkokan tersebut adalah perasaan yang ada pada diri seorang wanita yang mengalahkan perasaan seorang laki-laki.

Maka wahai Adam janganlah merendahkan perasaan Hawa, dia memang diciptakan seperti itu. Apabila seseorang wanita mengatakan dia sedang bersedih, tetapi dia tidak menitikkan airmata, itu berarti dia sedang menangis di dalam hatinya. Apabila dia tidak menghiraukan kamu setelah kamu menyakiti hatinya, lebih baik beri dia waktu untuk menenangkan hatinya sebelum kamu meminta maaf. Dan wanita sulit untuk mencari sesuatu yang dia benci untuk orang yang paling dia sayang .

CUDA FUAD.

GOOD LUCK!

Salam to all...
I would like to take this opportunity to wish ALL THE BEST n GOOD LUCK to my students in their upcoming 1st semester final exam n MUET exam. I hope all of u can answer the questions n do ur very best. I pray that all of you will succeed n proceed to 2nd semester...InsyaAllah..Amin.

CUDA..

SELAMAT HARI RAYA TO ALL..

Salam

SELAMAT HARI RAYA TO ALL OF U, N MAAF ZAHIR BATIN....Have a blast celebration n have a safe journey...

CUDA..

Alhamdulillah..

Salam everyone.

Today, i feel much happier n better. Im done, finally, with all the minutes of meetings. Being a secretary for two big organizations is not easy. I have to do this and that.Sometimes i feel my time is never enough, n i need few more hours. Well, wanna make it to 28 hours maybe. Yeah, it is a big opportunity and it shows how much people put their trust in me n they know that i can do the work, that's what they said. As for me, im tired. Feel like rushing here n there.

Despite of feeling better, i also feel happy today. My part time job so far went well. I enjoy teaching the students, n i think this is me, my nature. To teach ,share knowledge n deliver new information to the students are in my bloodline. I cant imagine myself working as doctor, lawyer, business woman or even soldier! Hmm..im very glad n thankful for the job that i have.Alhamdulillah.

They said, it is not easy to be a teacher or lecturer. Yes, i couldnt agree more with this. But, no matter how hard it can be, ill do my best.Actually what makes teaching profession looks hard is, all the non-teaching workload or the admin.'s work. Teachers/lecturers have to do other jobs, other tasks which are not theirs!! Thats why....ISO, courses bla..bla..bla.. n many others. Im afraid i might explode one day, getting sick with all those things.

Allah is GREAT. Even the most impossible thing can happen in our lives if HE allows it. Well, it happened to me last few days. But, im very certain with what i want in this life, so i wont turn my back anymore. Life must go on, no matter what. Besides that, im happy n grateful with the life that i have rite now. I did't ask from others, but i use my own effort to earn more money for my family. Alhamdulillah. As long as i remain as strong as i am rite now, ill survive....InsyaAllah..Amin.

Thank you to my family for the endless support that u gave me, during my darkest hours, during my joy....My family is always there, for me. Thank you to my beloved children, I LOVE YOU two unconditionally, limitless n borderless. What im doing now is for you two....Hopefully both of you will grow up well, n be a good person...better than ur mum.Amin.

And, to u my dearie Lan, Tq for the motivation n support that u have given me. I dunno what the future might hold for us, but insyaAllah,only Allah knows what is the best for us. The deep hole in my heart is finally filled by ur presence.The ups n downs n the uncertainty of what will happen, are part of our lives n relationship. Tq for being there, whenever i need you the most. U know how i feel towards you.Tq once again dear.

CUDA...

myMetro | Minda: Bagaimana mengawal amarah

I wanna share with all of u, a very informative article about,How to control our anger... Have a read. Sama2lah kita menjadi insan yg lebih pemaaf...Amin..

myMetro | Minda: Bagaimana mengawal amarah

CUDA...

Yes, i can do it!!!!

Tomorrow is a new day for me. Why? Well, i will start my diet, to lose another 4kgs by the end of this year. With the support from all my friends n my beloved one, i must do this, in order to maintain healthy n fit. This is recommended by the doctor as well (i went for a medical check up). Eventho my BMI is ok, but it is recommended that at least 4 kgs should be reduced. Huhu..so ive a plan. I will follow what is suggested by the expertise.So, here, everyone knows that ill work out on that one. My resolution, to get back my ideal weight. Before this, i didnt give a damn bout my weight, but now....motivation has come. No more playing around. In serious mode ill be, starting from tomorrow onwards...

So, SAY GOODBYE TO :
Cheese cake, big apple donuts, chocolate cake, ice cream, pizza( a slice wont hurt rite?),beef steak, lamb chop, chicken chop, McD, KFC, smoothies, nasi lemak, roti canai, nasi beriyani, auntie anne's pretzel, sweet cookies, Damiral, Black canyon, kenny rogers, etc....

SAY WELCOME TO:
Salad, wheetameal crackers n biscuits, fiber drinks, yogurt drink, fruits, n vegetables, soup etc...

CUDA..

Especially dedicated to dayah..

Gal,
i might know nuthing bout ur past life.
i might not understand ur feeling.
i might not go thru the same thing like u did.

BUT, i can imagine if one day, my lil gal, growing up juz like u, n write something like that, bout her feeling towards her daddy. I'll cry. I'll once again shed my tears. Shes going thru the same thing. She will feel like what u felt one day.

Suddenly, i feel so sad. If u were my daughter, dear, i wud have done anything to make u feel happy until u wont feel all those melancholic n sad feelings. U've reminded me to be a good mother to my kids. Tq dayah. I know how hurt n sad ur feeling is, but believe in this: ALLAH will give u happiness in the end. Sometimes we have to go thru sorrow, n then only we can find our own happiness.

I feel down too dayah sometimes. But, when i think bout those who i love, i put aside my negative feelings...I live for em.. I dunno what will happen in the future, but all i know is what had happened to my life. I have to wake up from this misery. The agony misery that i used to feel, will not be welcomed anymore. I wont allow it.

Life is beautiful actually. So, dayah..lets move on n prove all the people that we can get what we really want. I dun care bout what people say or talk bout me anymore. Im too good for em. Thats why. Till then dayah, take care n be safe. Luv ya.

CUDA...

As i moved on..

I was all alone, going for a ride
Travelling solo, off my guard
I had to follow this calling from the wild
Into the shadows
Into the shadows of my heart
I needed all my strength to stand up to your agenda
I said it, I said it again
I never wanna become stuck in your machine
I said it, I said it again
And as I moved on, thought I'd blow my mind
But as it turned out, I was wrong
I met my sorrow, saw her in the eyes
She tried my courage
She tried my courage, but left me stronger
You better stand up straight and you gotta be strong
You gotta fight for your right and reclaim your own song....
CUDA...

Welcome...

Salam to all.

I wud like to take this opportunity, to welcome all KMPP new students, Batch 2010/2011. Congrats on ur wise n rite decision that uve made. U wont regret, trust me, if u work hard enuff. After all, there's no success without pain. U have to endure the difficulties of life n bear with the outcomes. Therefore u cant expect things wud be that easy..Life will get a bit harder, but im sure u can cope with it. Take em as a challenge, something positive rather than negative. Then only ull enjoy the ride, a roller coaster ride.

Im coping with all these, so called "misery" n "pain". Hmm..as i said, life isnt that easy. Ups n downs, the tendency are there...U can escape from those things for a while, but not permanently free from em. So, in the meantime, u have to face it n enjoy the show. At the end, the sweet escape will come.

Welcome to u once again my new students, H5T1(my mentee), H6T4 n F4T5...Hope all of u will work hard n study smart n get gud results at the end. InsyaAllah... Till then, ill see u again later..when the mood comes.................................................

Cuda...

LOVE HURT QUOTES

If love is so important to have that one doesn't want to lose it, why is it when we find true love we often don't notice it? Anonymous

Anonymous
It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

If we don't feel love with our heart, then how come that's where it hurts when someone doesn't love you back?

The hardest thing to do is watch the one u love, love someone else.

The human heart knows thing the eyes cant see,

and feels the things the mind cant understand.

but if love is just a word, then why does it

hurt so much when you find it is not there..

dO U AGREE?