Tidak sempurna or sempurna?

Again i feel like writing...in this early morning. Talking about perfect and imperfect, what makes somebody perfect in your eyes? Is it when he/ she has all the personality traits that u really want then only that person is perfect? What if he/she doesnt have all the good traits?

Bagaimana kita hendak ubah personaliti seseorang yang memang dah ada sifat tu sejak dari kecik lagi? Contohnya, dalam hubungan, si lelaki tu tak romantik dan tak caring. Jadi, perlukah gf dia putuskan hubungan hanya semata-mata dia tak romantik? Penting tak untuk lelaki menjadi romantik dan caring?

I dunno..i think, if he is a bit caring n a bit romantic, there's no use of breaking up the relationship. We have to learn to accept the way he is. In a way, the guy also needs to realize that he should change certain things. Maybe not 100%, but at least try his best..In a serious relationship, it is crucial for both parties to play their roles in order to work out the relationship. Do u agree with that? It's not fair if only one party plays the role rite.

But, if si dia pun lepas tangan, take us for granted, take advantage atas kelemahan kita, maybe jugak kita kena consider balik. Is he/she the one for us? Atau mungkin ada yg lebih baik dari dia di luar sana...menanti untuk dijumpai.
Kalau hati kerap terluka dan disakiti, kalau dia buat kita macam tak berbaloi untuk dimiliki, or not worth to fight for..I think it's about time to make our move...kena kuat dan mental pun kena kuat jugak.

Kita pun kena tengok balik diri sendiri. Kita ni perfect sangat ke? Tiada siapapun yang perfect. Jadi, kita kenalah belajar menerima kekurangan dan ketidaksempurnaan si dia tu dengan hati terbuka walaupun sukar. Mungkin jugak kita perlu mencari apa yang istimewanya si dia di mata kita..Cari kelebihan yang dia ada...

Learn to love somebody who is not perfect in a perfect way...How? We have to find the way..Hmm...in the meantime, try to think positive maybe.

Some quotes to share with u:-

When you're in love you never really know whether your elation comes from the qualities of the one you love, or if it attributes them to her; whether the light which surrounds her like a halo comes from you, from her, or from the meeting of your sparks. ~Natalie Clifford Barney

When love is not madness, it is not love. ~Pedro Calderon de la Barca

You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams. ~Dr. Seuss

Come live in my heart and pay no rent. ~Samuel Lover

We were two and had but one heart > Francois Villon

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, While loving someone deeply gives you courage > Lao Tzu

There is no remedy for love but to love more > Thoreau

I love you, not for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you > Roy Croft

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